My husband and I have been enjoying a four day weekend together. I'm learning very quickly to take every chance I'm given to be with him...we never know when we might not have that opportunity. It's not just about being married to someone in the military; I think all married couples should never take time with their spouse for granted. When I started typing I wasn't talking about death...I was just referring to the times he will have to be away because of his job, but I think we all should realize that we're not guaranteed tomorrow and show our love when we have the chance.